MIA Y. ANDERSON CHANNEL
  • Home
  • Who is Mia?
  • Upcoming
  • Reel
  • Resume
  • Directing Projects
  • Writing CV
  • Brag Gab
  • Gallery
  • Contact
  • Mia's Musings

Love Jones

11/13/2012

0 Comments

 
Picture
In the age of being your best self, learning to understand your emotional development, just focusing on what is your place in the world, sometimes it is hard to justify the need for more than you. When you are feeling the pangs of desire for companionship, you are told "when you dont think about it will happen", or one of my favorites, " that is nothing but demons working inside you to keep you from your focus on the Lord". Dont get  it twisted, I am purely G*d's Property BUT after the Earth, there was Man and after Man was his mate Woman. There is nothing in Genesis about.. " Adam, when you have self-actualized you will find that mate ", or "  Adam, are you the person that you are looking for" the understanding is that people ( not to be a cliche musical) do need people. A baby will suffer without human contact, a animal becomes rabid without attention, and in a jail the harshest punishment is SOLITARY confinement. The need for love in your life is essential and there is no need to apologize, rationalize or pray it away. I am surrounded by people who love and care for me, in my life I was not blessed with an extended family. My family truly consists of me, my younger sister and a brother who I met 6 years ago but our relationship is a slow development. My support was created through friendship and work over this many years and I feel blessed to have people in my life, who care for me but have no blood relation to me. It was not until I hit my late '20's that I truly understood, "G*d Bless The Child Who Has Thier Own" when you dont enjoy the luxuries of a strong family, the need for self-reliance becomes incredibly important. Even beyond that need, is a stronger, more silent ache that longs to have someone who cares for you, just because you are who you are. Even on those days, when you are not particulary witty, those moments when the only person who would want to be around you is a mother and even she is reconsidering her decision. Those times, when all you want is someone just to tell you are beautiful, or to sit and read the paper with. We get  advanced degrees, workout, brush our teeth, acquire fabulous jobs and  become a more interesting human being so we can find that mate. It is not our only purpose on earth but it is what fuels us for the emotional rollercoaster that is life. I have no resolve on this issue and that plus one remains elusive but I celebrate the people who have a union that helps them this complicated forest of life. For those, like myself are still on this journey alone, never apologize for wanting to give and recieve the most precious of human emotions. I believe it means we are still alive!
0 Comments

    Author

    An Actor/Director sharing her thoughts on creativity in this crazy metropolis, New Yawk Citay.

    RSS Feed

    Categories

    All
    Acting
    #acting
    #arthurmiller
    #audition
    #Bible
    #blackactors
    #blackwomen
    #blond
    #blues
    Defund Police State
    #faith
    #feminism
    #film
    Health Systems
    #love
    #marilynmonroe
    Marilyn Monroe
    Mental Health
    New York City
    #nyc
    #politics
    #profiling
    #race
    Race Issues
    #sexuality
    #spirituality
    #theatre
    Women

    Archives

    February 2023
    April 2022
    March 2021
    January 2021
    December 2020
    October 2020
    April 2020
    November 2019
    August 2019
    April 2019
    June 2018
    June 2017
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    September 2015
    August 2015
    May 2015
    April 2015
    February 2015
    August 2014
    July 2014
    October 2013
    April 2013
    November 2012
    August 2012
    May 2012
    March 2012
    January 2012
    October 2011
    August 2011
    June 2011
    May 2011
    April 2011
    January 2011
    November 2010
    October 2010
    September 2010
    August 2010
    July 2010

    Categories

    All
    Acting
    #acting
    #arthurmiller
    #audition
    #Bible
    #blackactors
    #blackwomen
    #blond
    #blues
    Defund Police State
    #faith
    #feminism
    #film
    Health Systems
    #love
    #marilynmonroe
    Marilyn Monroe
    Mental Health
    New York City
    #nyc
    #politics
    #profiling
    #race
    Race Issues
    #sexuality
    #spirituality
    #theatre
    Women

    RSS Feed

  • Home
  • Who is Mia?
  • Upcoming
  • Reel
  • Resume
  • Directing Projects
  • Writing CV
  • Brag Gab
  • Gallery
  • Contact
  • Mia's Musings